you either serve Me fully, with everything you have to give, or you do not. They know that there is absolutely NO difference between lying down to take a beating from Me, and polishing My boots or carrying out any other mundane chore I give them. My subs understand that service is service. you make the effort to serve Me in the best way possible, and you aim to please Me because My happiness is your priority (DO NOT mistake the desire to "please" with the desire to "impress", the latter of which I disdain and will send you back to school). you perform well for Me because I am worth it, and because you believe yourself to be worthy of Me. your degree of attentiveness to details is a reflection of the pride you take in yourself as a worthy sub, and your respect for the Mistress you serve. This is keenly felt in the way you write to Me, the way you speak to Me, and the way you present yourself in person. Submission begins in the mind, and you will show it the moment you decide to send Me a formal request to see Me in a session. (Click here to gain a deeper understanding of submission)įor Me, submission is not confined to a dungeon or a "scene". This is not to be taken lightly by a Dominant. To serve is to give the GIFT OF SUBMISSION - "my time to be used at YOUR disposable, my body to be used for YOUR pleasure, my life for YOUR life". Submission is a self-proclaimed way of thinking framed by humbleness, respect and admiration for the Alpha (Me), a genuine desire to serve and worship, and the need to devote one's energy and time to something greater than one's selfish interests. Submissive men know their place in respect to Me, and from this place of subordination they will behave and speak in a way that reinforces their inferior status. The most important trait I look for in a submissive is the right attitude. They are all exceptionally well behaved, polite to a fault, fiercely intelligent, well educated, successful and driven, and they all live to please and serve a worthy Woman.ĭo you think you have what it takes to serve Me? In My ever elitist opinion, I consider My subs to be the cream of the crop (pun intended!). I have had the pleasure of being served by men from around the world, of all backgrounds and age groups, and I feel immensely excited whenever I receive a letter from a new sub.